Many of us think that showing off our bodies, exploiting ourselves to unworthy individuals, and displaying our sacred fruits makes us important or wanted. NO!
Your body and forbidden fruits DO NOT QUANTIFY your worth. Ladies understand that your brains and the beauty of your heart are more important than your outer beauty.Respect comes when you respect yourself and understand that there is a fine line between sexy with confidence, and inappropriate and low self-esteem.
A woman who knows her worth does not devalue herself for the attention or the affections of anyone. A woman who knows her worth knows that her inner beauty, heart, skills, brains coupled with her outer beauty will attract people. Your body is just one part of who you are. It is not your whole personality. Do not make your body so important that you ignore or forget who you really are, or create your confidence solely based on your body. Do not brainwash yourself to think that the only and best thing about you, is your body, That is not true.
A woman who knows her worth does not need validation from anyone. She does not need a nod, or a compliment for she knows within herself that she is beautiful, and wonderful. She does not need others to confirm this for her. She knows that she shines.A woman that knows her worth, does not objectify herself. She does not entertain degradation. She has created within herself a plateau of grace and class.
You are worth more than facebook likes on your body. You are worth more than having your whole body exposed for cat calls. You are worth more than being grabbed by a man. You are worth more than being told you are sexy.
We women all want to attract people who care about us for who we are. We all want to attract people who see the value in us, and love us genuinely. We do not want to attract people with ill intentions or who have their own agendas at mind.
Your womans liberation or freedom does not have to mean you have to lose your self-worth or respectability. Know that you are beautiful, amazing and have value outside of the baring of your flesh. You are a beautiful, worthy woman. Believe it ascend into it. ~Know Your Worth~ -M. Millie